While Getting Your Shit Together You Will Lose The Woman You Love!
I guess you’ve seen those romantic movies where a woman stays loyal to and waits for her guy to decide what exactly he wants in life and whether it’s his career or her. Of course, you know how the story goes, as he focuses on his career first, achieves his goals, and finally realizes that he loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her.
Sounds great right?
Okay now that that is over, everyone please wake up! You don’t live in a romantic comedy and not all love stories have a happy ending like those in Hollywood movies.
The thing is that a woman will give you a thousand chances and she’ll do that not because she’s naïve but because she believes in you. She believes that you can grow to your greatest potential and shape yourself to be the best version of yourself.
The woman who loves you will patiently wait for you to get your shit together.
However, if you blow the chance then get prepared to face the consequences because she’ll leave you and when this woman is done, she’s done.
- Once she realizes that her life is much better without you in it, draining her energy and wasting her time, don’t doubt that she’ll walk away and she’ll figure you’re not worth her tears. You can change everything about yourself, from habits, physical appearance, attitudes, or career, but nothing of these will make her change her mind about you.
- And if you think you can justify yourself by saying that if she couldn’t handle me at my worst, she doesn’t deserve me at my best, I’m here to tell you it will be just another useless excuse.
- No one has to put up with their partner’s bullshit because and no one deserves nor wants to have a life full of drama and stress just because their partner doesn’t want to take responsibility for their wrongdoings.
You might think that her decision to leave you was a selfish one, but don’t forget that your behaviors are the reason why she decided to finish her chapter with you and move on.
It’s pretty simple in reality. You can’t keep someone waiting for you until you decide what you really want in life and you can’t expect someone to devote all their attention and energy to you when you don’t even put the minimum amount of effort into the relationship.
There is no doubt that you’ll find someone who will be with you when you get your life together. However, the real question is whether you’ll find someone who will be willing to stay with you when all your flaws quirks, and insecurities begin to surface and someone who will be willing to help you fight your own demons-just as she would do. This is exactly why you’ll regret losing her.
You’ll regret losing the woman who stood by your side when you were at your lowest, the woman who saw your darkest sides and still chose to stay with you.
You’ll regret losing the woman who had a unique heart and loved you unconditionally, the woman who gave you everything she had, the woman who stuck with you through thick and thin and tolerated your bullshit. Once light hits you, you’ll regret not seeing her value.
You’ll regret not making things right when you had your chance. You’ll regret letting her slip away because she was probably worth much more than you were willing to give.
You didn’t know how to appreciate her, you took her for granted and this broke her heart hard enough to make her never look back. You thought that whatever you said or did she’d stay with you?
You got too comfortable depending on her forgiveness and you thought she had no other options. That she will give you chance after chance, then suddenly you realize you were very much wrong.
This woman knows her worth and she won’t settle for anything less than what she deserves. She’s fallen for your bullshit so many times but now she’s done and is turning a new page because it’s time for her to find someone who will know how to value and love her.
She needs to feel free and alive again.